Deciding what I need based on a label.

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Diagnosing me based on appearances.

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Making choices about my needs based on assumed ability.

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Ignoring my boundaries.

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Choosing treatment plans without full communication

And

Consent.

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Not valuing what I share about self.

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Telling me the pain is not as bad as I say.

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Avoiding topics that force my expression of pain buried.

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Gossiping about my interactions.

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Calling my truth a story based on your inability to imagine my survival if what I expressed was real.

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Seeing one of my needs/fears and using it to make yourself money.

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Touching me then shaming me for not wanting a stranger to randomly grab me.

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Discovering what hurts me just to do it more while calling it therapeutic.

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Dismissing my shared knowledge and opinions without asking questions or researching simply because I am ‘different and therefore less than’ in your eyes.

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Avoiding my assistance/presuming me worthless due to a diagnosis.

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Assuming the right to explain to me ‘why your behavior is acceptable’ regardless of how harmful it was to me/my health.

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Categorizing who I am allowed to gain help from or connect with based on what label you decide is most valid.

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Excluding me from services and social groups based on gossip about my behavior that is in accordance with my disability.

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Seeking out my triggers to utilize my fawning trauma response to claim innocence while taking advantage of my disorder for your gain.

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Shaming my differences for not being the same as you…

—————-as if anyone is identical.