You’re responsible for how your actions and words hurt people even if someone didn’t read your mind and know what your good intentions were at the time.

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When you choose to always tell someone they misunderstand instead of owning the pain you’re causing and apologize I have to take space from you as a person. Takes nothing but humility to be accountable for what you did and apologize.

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Its really not hard to see both parties are the ‘problem’. Like one person wasn’t considering/aware of the other enough and hurt them. Why is it too much to ask for them to apologize for an accident? Oh yea because they don’t value the person they are hurting from go. People hurt people on accident; you were still driving your flesh sack though. Doesn’t make anyone a bad person. Control your ego and say sorry like a big girl/boy/person. Gosh.

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Good person ego is so important it’s being inflated to being mature. Like no. Maturity is knowing you’re going to cause harm and it’s still going to be your fault.

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Not the person hurting.

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You for your actions.

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Not thier interpretations.

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You apologize for the hurt and explain so the furture can find a safe compromise for both. Thats connection. Thats valueing each other.

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Can’t do it? It’s on you and you just want control along with your good person ego in tact. Thank you for showing me that the pain I feel matter less to you than the label you wear for other’s to see.

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Warning: people who don’t apologize for accidents will never admit when they do it intentionally.