If you’re assuming EVERY person in a group does something,

You’re pain passing the trauma caused by someone that reflects that facet.

I am sorry you are hurt.

That doesn’t make your actions less abusive.

Embracing this mindset means opening self up to accumulating a traumatized view point that validates isolation because no one will ever be exactly like you &over time a diversity of harm will happen.

Unless you’re privileged and protected, but what if thats a form of isolation, too?