In other words:
People don’t react in war unless war is brought to their door.

Yes even the previously traumatized…as they are mearly more aware of the terms of warfare.

Calling another’s observation a ‘projection’ is a warcry in dismissal.

We all have pains. All human and likely to pass them. Only those that consider themselves perfect perpetuate the abusive standards.

Skipping accountability with someone? Do you value them or just your capacity to manipulate them into silence with blaming them for the pain you cause?