Comparisons of traumatics is meant in comfort but comes at one as a sudden shrunken self image. As if the issue one may experience could possibly be worse than another’s. It’s an impossibility because each human that walks this earth must climb and each human is granted plateaus. Some seem to hit higher highs and others seem to hit lower lows. It is unfortunate that our own place affects perspective, and that our place affects our awareness of the existence of perspective at all! Things coming from kindness leak ugly into others or open old wounds that were cut deep by another. To navigate this plain variation is a long taught social pattern that is not always successful or correct.